华仔：
外出工作五天，每天早早起来“挥亭”！
（导致不能看球赛）
应该紧密合作的同事不太合作，结果这五天的工作事倍功半……
出现失误的时候还把责任全推到我身上，
当时只能想办法解决问题，没办法解释谁对谁错。
“我們不是完人，要做到天下人認同~~難啊！
假如很清楚自己沒錯，自己認同自己就夠了。”
生活中总能遇到一些人让我们吃点亏，受点委屈，
每次的具体情况也不同，我还在努力学习怎样区别对待:)
有刘院士的鼓励和教导，我一定能成功做到“如鱼得水”的一天:d
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华仔：
外出工作五天，每天早早起来“挥亭”！
（导致不能看球赛）
应该紧密合作的同事不太合作，结果这五天的工作事倍功半……
出现失误的时候还把责任全推到我身上，
当时只能想办法解决问题，没办法解释谁对谁错。
“我們不是完人，要做到天下人認同~~難啊！
假如很清楚自己沒錯，自己認同自己就夠了。”
生活中总能遇到一些人让我们吃点亏，受点委屈，
每次的具体情况也不同，我还在努力学习怎样区别对待:)
有刘院士的鼓励和教导，我一定能成功做到“如鱼得水”的一天:d
太興奮了，折騰了一個多月終于能順利的等入了~好高興能這麽平凡的看到華仔的留言。華仔最近天氣這麽熱你要好好照顧自己唷！看到你成爲院士真是為你高興~為自己有這麽一個人生的榜樣也驕傲！明年我也要參加畢業典禮了~我一定會盡力拿到自己最好的成績，華仔要為我加油唷。。。
自從有這個新家, 每天都可以分享到不同的心靈感想. 華哥送我們的甜點, 吃了有身心暢快感, 看到各位朋友的留言, 也感覺是在心靈交流.
在這個新家, 真的學習到很多很多, 這些都是金錢無價的寶物, 終身受用! 我想, 很少人會相信, 會有偶像願意分享他內心的感想與感受給他的fans, 重點是, 偶像與fans, fans與fans之間還會互相交流想法.
哥哥常常都會給我們正面積極的鼓勵, 常常會開導我們, 無論是身教或言教, 真的是很感謝您:) 其實您已經是跳脫偶像的模式, 真正的說, 您應該是我們的心靈導師.
這裏真是一個可以讓內心與思想成長的地方:)
雖然我是希望義大利贏,但我覺得他們真的贏的不光彩,
不是光明正大贏回來的獎盃倒不如不要贏!!
我想席丹的心情是可以體會的,雖然他到最後無法控制情緒
而做出失禮的行為...
球迷的眼睛是雪亮的,加油!!席丹~~
:( :(
想起好多年前的一句話，“忍一時風平浪靜,退一步海闊天空”。
道理都是一樣。
Christine
Dearest,
When is the last time i post a message ? I start to recall....but memory fade...
Well, the urge for me to post a message now after reading our local news in Spore publish your feelings of Zindane incident.
And after which i came in here, and a shock that the website has changed and i have to login with my membership. There goes....i completely forgotten what is that password for this login membership but lucky of me, i have an email with andylau.com. And so now i am here finally.
I wanted to share my opinions too with you, i saw so many fans already responded to you. I did not read any but just yours.
But now when i amsupposed to type it out and share in the public. i just wonder should i really comment ?
"A person cannot control others action and behaviour
A person can control own action and behaviour
A person may know the consequences of action and behaviour
A person may not know the right timing of action and behaviour "
I wanted to write more , but too nagging is no good :) too expressive also no good :)
Ok, will do my very best to write more often here.
I miss the old website and my " home " is missing?
And i saw you will be going to Tokyo soon....hey! what a bad timing , becos i just came back 2 weeks ago. Anyway happy promoting, hope you have a good rest and enjoy shopping there???? haha...dont envy me i did TOO many shopping and rest over there. Your turn now and do take care.
antron
P/S: Thousands apologies to all fans becos i have wrote too lengthy . Kindly tolerate . Ok? :)
〈人性的弱点〉作者：戴尔．卡奈基 Part V
【第十六章】 ：如何启发别人
你对于自己发觉的意见、比别人代你说的是不是更信得过？假如是、那么你的意见向别人的脑子里硬塞、合理吗？那末、提出意见来…让人有机会去反省他的结论、不是一个聪明的办法吗？
Don't you have much more faith in ideas that you discover for yourself than in ideas that are handed to you on a silver platter? If so, isn't it bad judgement to try to ram your opinions down the throats of other people?
Isn't it wiser to make suggestions - and let the other person think out
the conclusion?
没有人愿意他自己是被别人强迫买什么东西或被派去做某件事。我们都喜自己的心愿买东西、或依自己的意思做事情。我们喜欢别人和我们商谈我们的希望、我们的需求、我们的思想。
No one likes to feel that he or she us being sold something or told to do a thing. We much prefer to feel that we are buying of our own accord or acting on our own ideas. We like to be consulted about our wishes, our wants,our thoughts.
二千五百前的中国哲学人老子就曾启示我们：
《江海所以能为百川之王者、以其善下之、故能为百川王。》
江海之所能容纳无数的溪流、乃因其置身于底处。同样的、贤人欲立人之上、就要能置身于人之下；欲立人之前、就要能欲立人之后。因此、贤者即使立人于之上、人亦不觉其压力；立于人之前、人亦不觉其碍眼。
因此假使你想影响别人来赞同你的意见、切记…〖让别人以为那意见是他的〗
Twenty-five centuries ago, Lao-tse, a Chinese sage, said some things that
readers of this book might use today:
' The reason why rivers and seas receive the homage of a hundred mountains
streams is that they keep below them. Thus they are able to reign over all
the mountain streams. So the sage, wishing to be above men, putteth himself
below them; wishing to be before them, he putteh himself behind them. Thus,
though his place be above men, they do not feel his weight; though his place
be before them, they do not count it an injured.'
Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
【第十七章】 ：唤起美好的心情
一件牢不可破的事实是：凡你所遇见的人…甚至于你照镜子时所见的那个人…对他自己都看得很高尚、同时喜欢依照自己所认定的、做个所谓的好且不自私的人。
人们每做一件事都有两个理由、一个是好听的、一个是真实的。能自己想到真正理由的人、你就不必强调。但我们所有的人、由于内心中都有成为「理想家」的理想、所以都喜欢想那好听的动机、因此、要想改变人的意见、应诉诸高尚的动机。
《诉诸高尚的动机、唤起美好的心情:) 》
The fact that is that all people you meet have a high regard for themselves and like to be fine and unselfish in their own estimation.
A person has two good reasons for doing a thing: one that sounds good and
a real one.
The person himself will think of the real reason. You dont need to emphasize
that. But all ofus, being idealists at heart, like to think of motives that
sound good. So, in order to change people, appeal to the nobler motives.
《 Appeal to the nobler motives》
Hello.. everybody ~~~
everybody~~有沒有注意到,首頁的累鬥累換了加長版囉!!
呵呵~~~華仔總是說到做到啊!!:D
不過快版那一段有夠難練的咧~~要念順難度還真高呢~~:p
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作者: AWCTA01180
sophia:
這麼聰明猜到我是誰了哦，哈哈～～
對啊，看到他的回覆，還真是驚喜＋嚇一大跳咧，呵呵～～
一起加油啊，無論如何，覺悟永不嫌遲，對吧！！揮亭～～～:)
carolin:
還是一樣喜歡長篇大論練中文嗎?哈哈~~~這兒就是最好練筆的地方啦,
多上來和大家解惑哦~~
想不到你的工作這麼國際化啊,和華仔一樣要飛來飛去做飛人,嘻嘻~~:D